While evolutionary psychology suggests that women pass on casual sex due to an inherent lack of sexual desire, Conley says there’s an entirely different reason. She posits that women say “thanks, but no thanks” for fear of being judged. She also says that women have serious reservations about whether a one-night stand would be enjoyable with a new partner. She tries to explain to men, “The reason women are turning you down for casual sex seems to be that, for one thing, a lot of you are calling them sluts afterward.” Also, “A lot of you aren’t bothering to try to be good in bed.” Preach.
Women Want Sex & That’s What’s Up - Vanessa Golembewski (via honeyedheroine)
You don’t say.
And, of course, this is without speaking to the fear of violence that may be the end result of said one-nighter
"Also, a lot of you aren’t trying to be good in bed"
can I have a tshirt with this on it orrr ??
The guys I talk to can’t stay away from me but not one of them actually wants to be with me. And the ones that do want to be with me, either I don’t feel the same or something is missing.